Exploring A New Way of Meeting Potential Playmates
 
Penises. Penes. Palos. Mangueros. Pollas. Oh My!  Up until this point in our journey into CNM (Consensual Non-Monogamy) we met penis-endowed playmates at clubs, resorts, parties or events.  We made our decisions primarily, in the moment, based on the appeal of the combination of appearance and personality.  If things worked out we may choose to keep in touch.  If not, then it ended there. Some couples, however, do what we would consider mimics “dating”.  They prefer to get to know one another through online profiles like Cafe Desire, Kasidie, SDC, SLS, Indulge, Quiver. They go out on “dates” to see if they click.  We decided to explore this way of meeting potential playmates, and in this episode, we consider whether this is worth trying. Listen in on our candid CarClip conversations as we work through the in-the-moment insecurities that came up around this new way of navigating our hobby.  Was this swinging lifestyle becoming a necessary part of our relationship? You'll hear how we get to a place of feeling reassured that, for us, our relationship will always come first (be the main focus) and anything else is only what, and when, we decide will add spice to what we already have together. Tune in to find out how oil painting is the perfect analogy for explaining all of this.
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Podcasts and Resources Mentioned:

Besame Mucho –  song by Trio Los Panchos

Hips Don't Lie – song by Shakira

Online Swinger Dating Sites:

Torrid Souls' Travel Page

Tequila Makes Her Clothes Fall Off – song by Joe Nichols

Atomic Dog – song by George Clinton

 

Interesting Quotes:

  • “I oil painted plenty, before I met you”
  • “I'm Looking at you too, but I have excellent peripheral vision”
  • “Set it up for success”
  • “Alcohol makes people look better, because you're not using so many filters – [not so much] thinking, thinking, thinking”
  • “See Dick Sleep…Wake up Dick… Wake Up!”
  • “It's a Session. It goes on for hours.”
  • “It's a curiosity, it's this exploration, a playground of activity that is enjoyable – full body”
  • “Nothing over about 8 inches for the happiness of our uteruses/uteri”
  • “We know what works, so why not go for what works”

Transcript

 

Tori:        Welcome to Torrid Souls. I'm Tori

Soul:        and I'm Soul.

Tori:         We're a same sex female couple …and we're both bisexual.

Soul:         Yes! How awesome is that?

Tori:          So maybe we're not the norm in the lifestyle and maybe our experiences are unique …or are they?

Soul:         We're a couple, very much in love.

Tori:          And like you, we like to spice it up sometimes too. So join us and let our SMEXY lifestyle conversations open your minds

Soul:          and your legs

Tori:           just a wee bit wider.

 

 

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