Some consider “cougar” a derogatory term. It's ageist. It's sexist and there's just something slightly tacky about it that many women don't want that label attached to them. Typically, a cougar is defined as an older woman who is primarily attracted to, and may have a sexual relationship with, significantly younger men. In general, the woman is 35 years or older, the man is more than eight years her junior. Cougars were most often described as “desperate”, “aggressive” and/or “predators”. Well all this uneasiness is shifting. Some younger men get a sexual high from a hottie who is independent, experienced, sexually confident, knows herself and what she likes. Some women are interested in the excitement, energy and enthusiasm of a younger guy who is playful and adventurous and can go all night long. In this episode we challenge ourselves (and the social norms about age and sexuality) as we embrace the new empowered flavour of this term. And since we do play with younger men, we decided to try something new – attending an organized event that specifically pays tribute to the beauty and sex appeal of women, and the younger men who enjoy this dynamic. Join us as we join in the Cougars & Cubs Event, a special edition of Oasis Agualounge's under 35 Sass After Class themed Monday nights. WARNING: Avoid operating machinery while listening to this episode. There is a potential safety hazard due to excessive laughter.
Come discover your own torrid soul with us. We'd love to hear from you! Send us your questions or comments. Hello@TorridSouls.com 1-647-547-5512 Twitter and Instagram @TorridSouls
Subscribe to Torrid Souls:
Apple | Stitcher | Google | Spotify | iHeart | Castbox | Podbean | Soundcloud
Please consider leaving us a rating and review wherever you listen.
Podcasts and Resources Mentioned:
Torrid Souls Episode 3: It's Raining Men
BBB – Butts, Boobs & Boats in Austin
Torrid Souls Episode 4: Naughty Virgins
Podcast-A-Palooza in Miami May 2020
Torrid Souls' Episode 10: Booty Call Blues
Cougars and Cubs event at Oasis
The Greatest – song by Sia (Uh Oh I've got Stamina)
Two or More to Tango interview
Torrid Souls interview page
Interesting Quotes:
- “Hippie Hollow, it better be cool, because that name is not!”
- “Because we'll be there, that mean you will all living vicariously through us
- “We are going to the event called the Cougars and Cubs night”
- “Outfit to have me feel confident, sexy, goddess-like”
- “It's not that cougars aren't hot”
- “You're not that different, and that's pretty cool”
- “It's not exactly the same, it's way better”
- “That would be freak-worthy!”
- “Going out to an event where guys are specifically looking like women like us”
- “Didn't want to start to doubt single guys”
- “You're going to be sifting through the good, the bad, the ugly”
- “He kinda ghosted on KIK”
- “I hear about it with couple too”
- “in the lifestyle and a mature-minded player”
- “I can get a lot of action”
- “This place should be full of single young men under 35”
- “We will be the women that are speed-dating with their potential cubs”
- “I don't mind labels that are kinda fun”
- “I see cubs as man-cubs; they're men”
- “Love hearing your perspectives!”
- “We get how it affects people, and that helps to fuel us!”
- “The 3am drive home”
- “Heading home after trying out this event”
- “We found a lot of cubs”
- “A lot of them were not our style”
- “Maybe that's a booty call down the road”
- “I just wanted to try”
- “I like these, can I try them?”
- “When you take charge – this is what I like – and you ask for it”
- “Too bad they were closing”
- “He was looking for us”
- “I'm being touched”
- “Well you tell him”
- “This is not a brothel; you are not paying to have sex”
- “He's the yogi of this place”
- “No buddy, you can't do that”
- “You come and you relax and you chill out and talk to people. When you are not expecting it, it will happen.”
- “The one guy that was out of line was basically being corrected by every other single guy in the place”
- “She was in transition”
- “I would be happy to offer you oral”
- “Would it be okay if I follow you around and watch, as I find you sexy”
- “All people, and everybody is just so respectful”
- “He's there for the first time, and he's making friends… getting to know the place”
- “Do you think we accomplished what we wanted”
- “We did approach the guy in the pool”
- “He was clean shaven, his chest”
- “The type we agreed upon, size wise, height, build and he was not pushy”
- “He's not a kisser”
- “That was kind of dry”
- “Now, being with someone who basically didn't kiss, it was missing”
- “Don't judge it, but was wondering”
- “Maybe he doesn't like kissing”
- “Too intimate, an emotional thing… could be protecting their heart”
- “We are interested in you; the others can watch, but no touching”
- “Everybody in the pool was listening to our conversation and our negotiations with this guy”
- “complete stagefright… totally freaked me out”
- “I'm so proud of you, you did so well”
- “Apparently you needed some practice”
- “He was pretty decent”
- “First time at a sex club”
- “The first times we chose this time, was the first time we chose in the under 35 club”
- “could account for the extra umph”
- “nothing wrong with guys in their 40s and 50s, we're just a lot to handle”
- “we're still in the playroom 20 minutes later”
- “We started early, mission accomplished”
- “We went upstairs before midnight”
- “We leveled up”
- “Earnest and Honest”
- “Because we're drop dead gorgeous… LOL… Thank you Mr & Mrs Tango”
- “We were interviewed on their show”
- “They are the first Lifestyle podcast we were ever interviewed by”
- “Warning: if you are on a treadmill, don't fall off”
- “You have such a great big ass”
- “Okay fuck, I know it's big. Shut the fuck up!”
- “This is not porn, it's real”
- “I was a little busy watching his gonads jiggle in my eyes”
- “This is some kind of documentary right now”
- “You couldn't function”
- “Nothing to do down here, but watch”
- “Do they remember I'm under here”
- “That was really close”
- “It's a vantage point I haven't seen”
- “Your parts are very pretty, so I didn't mind.”
- “His testicles needed to jingle”
- “They were so silent”
- “flopping away on my forehead”
- “once before with Batman”
- “sober at 5 o'clock in the morning”
- “had to stop at Denny's to eat some food”
- “We asked him to send us dick pics, and he did”
- “Maybe we are destroying it for other women, because we ask for them”
- “Maybe they just like to take pictures of their junk”
- “He likes older women… hot because they are confident and don't have any fear of taking charge”
- “Younger men, so they can keep up with us”
- “We'll see”
- “It's kinks like it us… it's authentic”
- “Upcoming episodes: Finding your tribe, evening out with Batman, Online date in San Diego that didn't work out, trip to Temptation, Vegas in June, Soul's new Boobs”
- “We travel and make more stories, having fun”
This was great! So nice to hear real stories from real people. It’s also nice to know that just because you are different or like different things does not mean that it’s a bad thing.