We're at it again.  Yep. We're doin' it in the car, again …and this one goes long and deep!  Mmmm-hmmm. Hope you have the stamina to keep up with us til the very end 'cause in this episode we're telling you all about our time at VIN (Valentine's in Niagara) Couples Convention, the largest lifestyle event of it's kind in Canada.  It's a complete hotel takeover featuring a non-stop weekend of seminars, workshops, themed dances, pool parties and hundreds of like-minded couples exploring the naughty side of their sexuality. This was our 2nd year attending, and now that we are podcasting our escapades, we share it all with you. Listen in on our drive home as we recap the sexy times (with you in our proverbial back seat).  Find out what went down on that weekend in February. Consider this foreplay for our next episode – yes, our very first on-site, live recording  is coming next…. Him & Her, from Monogamish Marriage, and Penn and Paige, from Swinger Diaries, joined us, and a roomful of listeners.  It was a conversational orgy! Awww Yaaa. Stay tuned for that… and for now, we give you the scoop on VIN.
 
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Podcasts and Resources Mentioned:

Valentines In Niagara – Lifestyle Hotel Takeover Event
Priory Society Podcast
Spiritual Swingers Podcast
Torrid Souls room set up – video on Twitter
Party Light – Amazon (affiliate link)
Tori at the Gym – video on twitter
Soul at the Gym – video on Twitter
Drinks in Tori and Soul's room – pics on Twitter
Ozone Club in Toronto
Swinger Diaries Podcast
NIN – Naughty in N'awlins (affiliate link)
Life on the Swingset Podcast
Katy – party supplement (affiliate link)
The Monogamish Marriage Blog
Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto
Cafe Desire
Sex in the Air – song by Rihanna
Titos Handmade Vodka
Two or More to Tango Podcast
Goldschlager – Torrid Souls' Tweet
Fireball Whisky
Average Swingers Podcast
Life's a Dance – song by John Michael Montgomery
Torrid Souls Episode 7: Dating Penises
Swinging Downunder Podcast
Sapphic Swingers

Online Swinger Dating Sites:

Torrid Souls' Travel Page

 

Interesting Quotes:

  • “I like that we went on Thursday”
  • “We are very social and like to have a little space sometimes”
  • “We had people in the room just to see our room”
  • “I turned my phone off and left it off for the entire weekend”
  • “I don't know what you heard about the lifestyle, but there is absolutely no pressure here”
  • “Are we going to fall over people having an orgy in the lobby?”
  • “We like to share – we are good sharers”
  • “Glitter is forever”
  • “Glitter means something sparkly is happening or happened”
  • “Perverted charades / pictionary eg. Pearl Necklace”
  • “It was so funny to see the dynamics in every single couple. One perv and one innocent one”
  • “The meals are cool that way, sit down and get to know someone”
  • “A friendly face to say hi to”
  • “Checking out people to see who jive with your vibe”
  • “It's a nice way to get a taste of an event”
  • “It keeps the build up of energy in one building”
  • “We had room number 369”
  • “Friday night's theme was Red Devil”
  • “A red almost dress”
  • “Got a little bit tipsy”
  • “We should discuss the we – who is the we”
  • “Big Blue Eyes was coming down for the weekend”
  • “That's the WE that was taking care of the drunk ME”
  • “You were very gung-ho to do stuff that you could not do”
  • “Enthusiastic on heels with not the best balance”
  • “You got nervous when I decided to get up on the pole”
  • “Blue said to me “I like it when she drinks””
  • “Yeah she's fun”
  • “Maybe I stepped on myself – it looks like a high heel stabbed me on the top of my foot”
  • “It's not just Rum, because I was drinking Whisky”
  • “Enthusiastic and lacking discretion to know what your capabilities were”
  • “That was it for vertical dancing”
  • “Did we say we would go look at the playrooms?”
  • “I was a little tipsy too”
  • “We ended up in the room; we had a key for our own room and went to the room”
  • “A moment, an experience, a session”
  • “That's all I can say is Yes, Yes, Yes”
  • “A lot of focus on you”
  • “I'm okay with that, with 2 voyeurs”
  • “Finally shut off the lights at 4am”
  • “You weren't done”
  • “The one time he got up to go to the bathroom, you pulled up your phone flashlight”
  • “What are you doing?”
  • “Watching you walk by the bed; the scenery is really good”
  • “What about the packages?”
  • “Break it down; what do you look for? What do you see?”
  • “It's nice when guys take care of their physical attributes, and have it displayed in the front”
  • “The underwear that keeps it together in the front”
  • “It's an invisible scale – more of a switch on or off”
  • “They pushed their chair away from the table and looked down”
  • “Talking with Paige about Orgasms, sexy single men”
  • “Couldn't sit down any more”
  • “Did this S thing – body language – curvy – chest out, hips one way, head to the side”
  • “What should we do next?”
  • “We weren't hungry for food”
  • “We went upstairs to have a session”
  • “I was on fire. You were barely brushing fingers over me, blowing on me”
  • “I was just on”
  • “Conversation about sexy topics, gets body going”
  • “Maybe that's the reason why I never talked about sex”
  • “Maybe it's the talking that turns me on, and then what to do with that energy”
  • “It's like the swinger convention warmed up Southern Ontario”
  • “Up and then you stay up”
  • “Podcast meet and greet in our room”
  • “Lots of Time – then it became 3:30pm”
  • “and had to set this place up and not look like we were doing what we were doing”
  • “I love the fluidity of how we mesh”
  • “wiling to take charge, and follow, happy to do whatever”
  • “Big into energy”
  • “Sex smells like sex”
  • “You're letting out all the expensive air – this is high quality air in here that we created”
  • “Somehow our energies match in a way that is just perfect”
  • “Inviting people into our room, none the wiser”
  • “You're the reason we couldn't sleep last night and this afternoon”
  • “We were going to come over to see if you needed any help, then listened in and “no you don't need any help””
  • “I think it helped the podcast – the expensive air”
  • “The fun unbeat, positive passionate energy, and it's contagious”
  • “Reved up Zen”
  • “You sip water and you are swallowing razor blades”
  • “Ahhhhh yes, I just had a shot, right to down there”
  • “This is why Fireball is always sold out at our local liquor store”
  • “Might as well pour it into your panties”
  • “We have listeners”
  • “People want to meet us”
  • “I should have just taken the pile of beads and set them down in front of you and say I need help with this”
  • “In sex you just lay there and say I need help with this”
  • “First person on the planet that said that to us… “I'm your number one fan””
  • “It's interesting to hear why they listen, how they found us, how they relate”
  • “20 to 30 people in the room”
  • “Big Blue came into the room to get his stuff”
  • “That would have been an interesting podcast – ooooh, awwww”
  • “So grateful for Penn and Paige from Swinger Diaries and Him and Her from Monogamish Marriage Blog”
  • “We are telling stuff that we don't tell the rest of the world”
  • “I really think I could like these people”
  • “Get to meet these listeners and give them a hug”
  • “We do all these things separate”
  • “There is something about being in person”
  • “That night was Mardi Gras theme”
  • “I chose lacy purple ‘here-are-the-girls' bra”
  • “The masks were awesome – give this wow to the whole outfit”
  • “They keep the hotel temperature up; tropical”
  • “I could not take my eyes off of you”
  • “Sorry, SO not sorry”
  • “We danced with all kinds of people”
  • “I got a lapdance from this vixen dressed in electrical tape”
  • “Some sexy rock song, emotion into the words”
  • “Stupid Scooby-Doo grin on”
  • “When I finished doing that lap dance my thighs were burning”
  • “Mine were too”
  • “I liked that lapdance, the pole dance”
  • “We like all versions of dance”
  • “I took the boots off, and then this chair showed up in front of me”
  • “She gave me a foot massage — foot orgasm — you know what you are doing”
  • “This is cool – you do a podcast, people meet you, you like them, they like you, and you get a foot massage”
  • “Meet some really great people – they kinda know you”
  • “They've already been in your bedroom”
  • “It's like 100s of people in the back of our car right now driving down Church street”
  • “Pulled up a chair to a certain window”
  • “You put Slippery When Wet sign in front of the window”
  • “I just watched you have sex, now invited into room and let's have a conversation”
  • “Went back to the room, just you and I”
  • “Hooking up”
  • “You don't date and you don't hook up”
  • “I'm going to run out of English words”
  • “This weekend was really good for us”
  • “The more sex you have in a short period of time, the hotter you look”
  • “Build up of it all”
  • “When back in that environment, we are on”
  • “Affirmation for self, feel sexy, other people are appreciating you outside of your marriage”
  • “Feeling confident, happy is what is sexy. It doesn't matter your shape, it's how you feel”
  • “Flowing, flowing, flowing together”
  • “Fell asleep on top of me”
  • “Exactly the way to punctuate the weekend”
  • “I would really like to not be nervous”
  • “Can't have an opinion about something unless I have tried it”
  • “Not making a judgement about anything in the future”
  • “I'm going to trust your leadership in this moment”
  • “Haven't experienced it so can't make a decision about it”
  • “Usually I need a build up, but I was already built up”
  • “I was concerned, because if there is going to be any reactions at all, it is that I crossed a boundary that you didn't know existed”
  • “If I go full into eye contact, the passion moment, are you going to be okay?”
  • “So I didn't allow that”
  • “Another step back away from my feelings and agenda”
  • “Step forward into things that you prefer, paying attention to how that is for you rather than how it affects me”
  • “That's really hot!”
  • “A moment, that I actually was okay!”
  • “Feeling triggered, left out, awkward, I was in my head”
  • “Don't interact with someone to spite someone else”
  • “I never felt that lack of feeling, the extra feelings”
  • “Helped by the male partner, confident, relaxed, doesn't show preference, there to have fun”
  • “What percentage you want it to be just physical”
  • “Curious to allow myself to succumb to that passion part”
  • “That was a moment, let's hope it continues”
  • “I've been around the block a time or two”
  • “Been with men before – don't know that I was in such a confident grounded place”
  • “I didn't have what I have with you, foundation”
  • “I like my body now, how it works”
  • “Another leveling up of letting go”
  • “I see you do it, and I love it”
  • “This little bit of envy – only time I felt that was watching the two of you”
  • “Not comfortable interacting socially sexual if don't first have the connection with you”
  • “Once I realized there was an US happening, I could move forward”
  • “If I'm not feeling it, I don't go any further”
  • “Did a practice run, before breakfast, that everything was working”
  • “Was laid up, out of bounds, caution tape”
  • “Gave me a base to launch from”